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  • DanStokes
    Ancient LSR Guy
    • Oct 2007
    • 28673

    #1

    Change in Plans

    As I mentioned on here, I was on my way to Buffalo to pick up my new engine (from Jays67) for the Buzz Bomb. Slight change in plans. My best friend, Jim Shears, died last night. He had FINALLY taken off a lot of weight (he'd been heavy - REALLY heavy - all his life) and he was feeling well and happy. We talked at length yesterday and I hung up feeling really good that he had turned a corner. So I'll be headed to Ann Arbor first, then on to Buffalo.

    Jim was not really a car guy but we did some projects together and had a lot of fun. He was the guy with whom I went to 7 Stevie Ray Vaughn concerts. I was his best man and there are some great stories about that. I got to watch him grow and learn and become a better person. I'll miss him.

    Call your friends. Get together if you possibly can. You really don't know how long you'll have together. Please send prayers/Positive Energy for his widow, Karen. She's one of the best and will need support as she navigates this new chapter of her life.

    Thanks all
    Dan
  • SpiderGearsMan
    No Life Outside BangShift.com
    • Oct 2007
    • 22359

    #2
    Re: Change in Plans

    rest in peace brother , sounded like a really great guy

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    • TheSilverBuick
      ALMOST Spidey !
      • Nov 2007
      • 22145

      #3
      Re: Change in Plans

      Bummer :-\
      Escaped on a technicality.

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      • milner351
        No Life Outside BangShift.com
        • Nov 2007
        • 16033

        #4
        Re: Change in Plans

        Bummer -

        Sorry to hear that Dan - at least the last conversation you had with him was a good one.

        Dan - let me know when you'll be in town - perhaps we can get together.

        Nothing really prepares us for the loss of people close to us, indeed - we must cherish the time we have together.

        Travel safely - prayers on the way.
        There's always something new to learn.

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        • Junk Whisperer
          Superhero BangShifter
          • Jan 2009
          • 2837

          #5
          Re: Change in Plans

          I'm sorry to hear it,Dan ,still,ya gotta remember the good times more than anything. And yes,it's GREAT that you two were able to get in a good,lenthy chat...most folks don't even get that chance . Take care,~J/W-OO6.

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          • Eagle Kammback
            Legendary BangShifter
            • Jan 2009
            • 5490

            #6
            Re: Change in Plans

            I'm so sorry to hear that
            Rumors of my demise by rollover have been greatly exaggerated.

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            • SuperBuickGuy
              No Life Outside BangShift.com
              • Jan 2008
              • 32245

              #7
              Re: Change in Plans

              my thoughts and prayers are with you as well Dan.
              Aaron
              Doing it all wrong since 1966

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              • DirtyWhiteBoy
                Superhero BangShifter
                • Jan 2009
                • 835

                #8
                Re: Change in Plans

                Sorry to hear that Dan.

                My thoughts are with his family and friends.
                A.K.A. Brian

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                • min301
                  Legendary BangShifter
                  • Oct 2007
                  • 8552

                  #9
                  Re: Change in Plans

                  Originally posted by milner351
                  Bummer -

                  Sorry to hear that Dan - at least the last conversation you had with him was a good one.

                  Dan - let me know when you'll be in town - perhaps we can get together.

                  Nothing really prepares us for the loss of people close to us, indeed - we must cherish the time we have together.

                  Travel safely - prayers on the way.

                  Me too!
                  Sorry for your loss, Dan.

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                  • Blazerteam
                    Legendary BangShifter
                    • Mar 2008
                    • 7676

                    #10
                    Re: Change in Plans

                    Sorry to hear that Dan.Warm and friendly thoughts sent.

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                    • squirrel
                      Benevolent Ruler of the Universe
                      • Nov 2007
                      • 19334

                      #11
                      Re: Change in Plans

                      Sorry for your loss Dan, I lost a good friend a few years ago too. Hang in there!

                      My fabulous web page

                      "If it don't go, chrome it!" --Stroker McGurk

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                      • Pumpkin
                        Legendary BangShifter
                        • Oct 2007
                        • 6600

                        #12
                        Re: Change in Plans

                        Dan, like everyboby else I was saddened to hear this. Godspeed Jim. Sending prayers/Positive Energy for his widow, Karen, and to you as you're also are dealing with the loss.
                        "Somewhere the zebra is dancing". Garth Stein's The art of racing in the rain.

                        Matt

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                        • Gary 351C
                          Legendary BangShifter
                          • Jan 2008
                          • 3508

                          #13
                          Re: Change in Plans

                          That's really sad, in 2000 I lost a good friend who was only 47. We always had a great time whenever we got together, I will always miss him.
                          Just groovin' to my own tune.

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                          • BigBlockMopar
                            Superhero BangShifter
                            • Nov 2007
                            • 3498

                            #14
                            Re: Change in Plans

                            Sad stuff Dan. Good luck dealing with the loss.
                            Life can be over before you know it. Try to get the most from the time you're on this planet.
                            Channel some of that positive energy to Karen.

                            www.BigBlockMopar.com

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                            • Bamfster
                              Lord God King BangShifter
                              • Apr 2008
                              • 10445

                              #15
                              Re: Change in Plans

                              May he rest in peace

                              Sorry for your loss Dan
                              Whiskey for my men ... and beer for their horses!

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